Like humans, no two dogs are alike, and neither are their responses to death and loss. Dogs are incredibly intuitive animals, and they can display affection, feel loss, and show signs of sadness after the emotional loss of a playmate.
There is no denying the genuine love people have for their dogs, and the lengths they will go to make them happy. In a recent
survey,
people were interviewed about what their dogs meant to them. The findings included:
- More than four in five (83%) dog people consider their pup their best friend.
- Close to nine in ten (87%) dog parents say they love their dog more than they ever thought possible.
- More than half (56%) wish their dog could understand how much they mean to them.
For many, the bond between a dog and their owner can feel as strong as the selfless love between humans. Seeing your dog feeling sad or withdrawn after losing a playmate can be deeply distressing, on top of your own grief.
5 ways to help your dog if they are experiencing grief
Exercise
- Mourning can lead to a loss of appetite, sluggish responses, or a lack of interest in playing. Gentle playtime and exercise can help lift mood.
- Like humans, dogs release feel good chemicals (endorphins) during exercise, which can support a more positive emotional state.
- As your dog begins moving more, they may slowly regain appetite and interest. Try longer walks, favourite parks, or safe off leash time where allowed.
Keep them hydrated
- A dog experiencing loss may show signs of depression, including reduced appetite. Give them time to adjust and make sure they are still drinking plenty of water.
- If they refuse water or food for longer than 12 to 24 hours, or they seem unwell or in pain, contact your vet to rule out a medical issue.
Routine, discipline, and calm
- It is normal to be gentler at first, but avoid suddenly abandoning routine. Dogs often feel safer when their day to day structure stays familiar.
- A balanced dog tends to feel more settled: movement for the body, affection for the heart, and boundaries for the mind.
- Keeping these three areas consistent can help your dog feel secure while they adjust.
Go on an adventure
- A change of scenery can be a healthy distraction. New places offer new smells, which can be mentally enriching for dogs.
- Sniffing gives dogs a huge amount of information, and it can help relieve stress and anxiety.
Introducing a new dog
- Some families introduce a new dog before an older or unwell dog passes, so the remaining dog still has companionship. A new dog, especially a puppy, can bring fresh energy and happiness.
- However, introducing a new dog too early can backfire if you or your dog are not ready.
- It can help to wait until the household has processed the loss, and to remember puppies require lots of time and attention.
Reach out to Pet Haven today
The team at Pet Haven understand how hard it is to lose a pet. We are available 24/7 on 1800 789 567, and we can help with resources for the grieving process, for both you and your other pets.
Contact us today for support with the final arrangements of your pet’s farewell.

